Ungoyiki ukuhamba nabantwana. Ekuphela kwento oyifunayo ngumbutho, ihlombe kunye nethamo lomonde. Ukuba udlulisela ebantwaneni bakho uthando lokuhamba kunye nokwazi iindawo ezintsha, baya kukonwabela.
Khetha indawo efanelekileyo
Oko kukuthi, ukuba uhamba nabantwana, sincoma ukuba ukhethe iholide irente kwindawo esembindini, apho uziva ukhululekile ngokutya kunye neenkonzo kunye neendlela zokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Khetha indawo yokuhlala efanelekileyo
Kubalulekile ukuba onke amalungu entsapho abe nendawo yawo kwaye azive evuya kwaye anelisekile ngohambo. Vula Karta.com ungafumana iindawo zokuhlala ezahlukeneyo eziphangaleleyo zosapho lonke. Ukuba kukho ilungu lentsapho elithanda imidlalo, zama ukufumana umsebenzi ohambelanayo, umzekelo. Ngale ndlela, wonke umntu uya kuyonwabela iholide kwaye umoya uya kuba mhle ngakumbi.
Khumbula ngokuzonwabisa
Ukuba sekhefini kunye nosapho kuthetha ukukwazi ukunandipha, ngokuchanekileyo, intsapho. Kukho amaxesha apho silibala okanye kulungile ukukhumbula. Fumanani ixesha lokuba nonke nibe kunye, nenze imisebenzi eqhelekileyo kwaye nazane ngakumbi.
Ungafuna ukuchitha iholide nosapho lwakho kodwa, xa kufikwa ebantwaneni, indawo onokuthi wenze kuyo abahlobo iyacetyiswa kakhulu. Umzekelo, ukuba uya ehotele, asikuxeleli ukuba ucele uluhlu lweendwendwe, kodwa unokubuza ukuba kukho imisebenzi yabantwana, okanye uqaphele abantwana abaneminyaka efanayo.
Khu seleko kuqala!
Ungalibali ukuzisa amaxwebhu ayimfuneko kusapho lonke, ngakumbi ukuba luhambo lwamazwe ngamazwe. Izacholo zokuchongwa ezinegama kunye nenombolo yomnxeba yonxibelelwano kangangeentsuku elunxwemeni okanye ukujonga indawo esixekweni kuya kuba luncedo olukhulu kunye noxolo lwengqondo.
Khumbula ukuphumla
Injongo yesibini yeholide, emva kokunandipha intsapho, kukuphumla. Zihloniphe iishedyuli zokuphumla kunye ne-nap, ukuba zikhona. Kuba iholide ayinamsebenzi ukuba abancinci abaphumli…. kodwa kwakhona akuncedi ukuba abantu abadala babuye bediniwe kunokuba befikile.
Nika ingqalelo malunga nokukhethwa kokutya
Enye yezinto ezixhalabisa abazali ngexesha lokuya ekhefini kukutya, ngakumbi kwiindawo zokulala ezifana neehotele nakwiihambo zamazwe ngamazwe. Ukuba uya eflethini ingxaki ayiyongxaki kangako kuba uya kukwazi ukupheka kwaye uzithengele ngokwakho; nangona kunjalo, kwiindawo apho ukutya okungekho kuwe, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uxelelwe kwaye uthintele iimeko ezithile. Njengayo yonke enye into, ukucwangcisa nokuzama ukufumana ulwazi kwangaphambili kubalulekile, ngakumbi kwiintsapho ezinengxaki yokutya okanye ukunganyamezeli.
Lahla ishedyuli
Ubomi bemihla ngemihla bunzima ngokwaneleyo kwaye bude ngokwaneleyo ngaphandle kokugcina eso santya ngexesha leeholide. Iishedyuli, ukuxinana kwezithuthi, iinkqubo zesiqhelo, isikolo, umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya, umsebenzi… Iintsuku okwiholide zokonwabela, uphucule kwaye ube bhetyebhetye (sithethe kakhulu malunga nokuba bhetyebhetye kwesi sithuba ;)). Ulibale ishedyuli iintsuku ezimbalwa, akukho nto eyenzekayo ngenxa yokuba baya kulala baze badle kamva, kwaye musa ukulala, okanye ukozela ebhedini kusasa.
Yiba lula ukuhamba
Ukuguquguquka ngokuqinisekileyo ngundoqo kwiholide eyimpumelelo. Ukuqonda ukuba likhefu, i-parenthesis yemihla ngemihla kwaye, ngoko ke, kufuneka sisebenzise ithuba. Asithethi ngokunika yonke into kwabancinci, kodwa mhlawumbi singabi ngqongqo kakhulu kwimithetho.
Ukucinga okulungileyo ngundoqo
Ukuqalisa iiholide ucinga ukuba aziyi kuhamba kakuhle, ukuba abantwana baza kuziphatha kakubi, okanye uhambo lwemoto luza kuba sisihogo sengqondo esibi. Masibe neengcinga ezakhayo kwaye, ngale ndlela, sitsala izinto ezakhayo.
Ulwazi lophando kwangaphambili
Ukuba uya phesheya, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uxelelwe kakuhle malunga nendawo oya kuyo: ukutya, ukutshintsha kwexesha, iimpawu zendawo yokuhlala, ezothutho… Ngale ndlela, uya kulungela nayiphi na ingxaki okanye ukothuka okunokwenzeka.
Yenza uluhlu
Ewe, ukucwangcisa kubalulekile. Siyakucebisa ukuba wenze uluhlu lwezinto ezibalulekileyo onokuthi uzifake kwisutikheyisi yakho (nangona siza kuthetha ngetyesi kwenye indawo). Ukongeza, nangona ukuguquguquka kunye nokuphucula kungamahlakani alungileyo eholide zasehlotyeni, akulimazi ukucwangcisa eminye imisebenzi kwangethuba, enje ngeekonsathi, imisebenzi yezemidlalo, uhambo, njl.
Cwangcisa uhambo lwakho ngexesha lokulala kwabantwana
Eyona nto iyoyika kakhulu abazali xa kufikwa ekuhambeni luhambo ngokwalo. Yiba ngayo nayiphi na indlela yokuthutha. Ingcamango kukuzama ukuhamba ngelixa belele, ukusebenzisa ixesha lokulala, ukuhamba ekuseni, okanye ukuhamba ebusuku, ukuba kunokwenzeka.
Gcina uhambo lwakho lube lufutshane
Ukuqhubela phambili nohambo ngexesha leeholide, makhe sizame ukuzigcina zifutshane kwaye zingabi ngaphezu kweeyure ze-5 zokuhamba kwaye simise amaxesha amaninzi ukolula imilenze. Enye inketho kukuma endleleni kwaye uchithe ubusuku.
Kuphephe ukupakisha imithwalo yakho ngokungxama
Imithwalo xa uhamba nabantwana yindawo ebuhlungu, siyazi. Sinokukuxelela kuphela ukuba ulawule umthamo wemithwalo. Khumbula ukuba kwimeko embi kakhulu, ungathenga into oye wayilibala kwaye eyona nto ingcono, kukho oomatshini bokuhlamba. Ekugqibeleni, badla ngokuba ziihambo zaselwandle apho sinxiba khona, ixesha elininzi, kwiimpahla zokuqubha kunye nempahla etofotofo.
Thenga ubhaka
Ukuba siyazi ukuba baza kufuna ukutya into ethile… inokuba licebo elihle ukuthwala into ebhaka, akunjalo? Kubonakala ngathi yinto esisiseko, kodwa sithwala izinto ezininzi kwaye singxamile kangangokuba sizilibale.
Buza abantwana bakho
Ngaba unokuthelekelela ubandakanya abantwana bakho kwiiholide zakho? Sithetha ukubabuza ukuba bangathanda ukuya phi okanye ubuncinane ukubazisa kwangaphambili kunye nemisebenzi abangathanda ukuyenza. Kwakhona, ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yabo, banokunceda ekukhetheni iimpahla zabo baze bazipakishe kwisutikheyisi okanye bakhethe izinto zokudlala abafuna ukuba nazo ebudeni beholide.
Yiza nokuzonwabisa
Ipeyinti, iincwadi zamanqaku, oonodoli, iipuzzle, iincwadi, njl. Emva konyaka onzima, ufanelwe ukuphumla, ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuba kunye.
