Ubugcisa bolawulo lwezihlwele

Phantse kuzo zonke iintlobo zokhenketho kunye nokuhamba kukho imfuneko yolawulo lolawulo lwabantu abaninzi. Nabani na okhe wabukela izihlwele ezikhulu kumbhiyozo wangaphambi koNyaka oMtsha we-Times Square waseNew York okanye okhe waya kulwandle oluzele luzeleyo uyazi ngokubaluleka kolawulo lwabantu. Ayilulo lonke ulawulo loluntu olufuna ukuba kube lwemibhiyozo. Ngokomzekelo, kukho ulawulo lwezihlwele zonqulo njengaseSt. Peter’s Square eRoma, ngexesha leHajj eMecca okanye ecaleni koMlambo iGanges eIndiya. Kukwakho nolawulo lwezihlwele zezopolitiko ezinje ngeparade yezopolitiko, ingqungquthela okanye irali.

Ayilulo lonke ulawulo lwesihlwele oluchaphazela iminyhadala emikhulu njengoBusuku bangaphambi koNyaka oMtsha eNew York, okanye iHajj eMecca. Kukho ezinye iindlela zolawulo lwabantu abaninzi, ezithi nangona zikwinqanaba elingaphantsi, nazo zifuna ukulawulwa. Ukusuka ekulindeni emigceni kwizikhululo zeenqwelo moya kunye neepaki zemixholo ukuya kumabala emidlalo nakwimisitho yezemidlalo kukho imfuneko yokulawula imigca nemisitho engaphakathi kwebala lemidlalo.

Enyanisweni azifani zonke izihlwele. Izihlwele zidla ngokubumba kwiindidi ezininzi zokhenketho. Umzekelo, iikonsathi kunye nemisitho yangaphandle inokutsala izihlwele. Imisitho yeYunivesithi kunye namaqela nawo azoba izihlwele, kodwa i-make-up yesihlwele yahluke kakhulu.

Abaphengululi abafunda izihlwele baziqhekeza ngeentlobo ezininzi. Ngokomzekelo, izihlwele zisenokuba ngabantu abafanayo, njengezihlwele zonqulo okanye zezopolitiko, okanye ezingafaniyo, njengezihlwele kwisitrato esixakekileyo. Izihlwele zisenokucwangciswa kwangaphambili okanye zizenzele ngokwazo, zinokubanjwa okanye zoyike zize zijike ngokukhawuleza zibe sisidube-dube okanye ihlokondiba.

Ezinye izihlwele zityekele ekubeni nobuhlobo yaye zikulungele ukusebenza nabasemagunyeni ngoxa ezinye ziphumelela xa zingakwenzi oko bakucelayo. Izihlwele zisenokuba nengxoxo, ngokomzekelo zifuna ukubhukuqa ucwangco lwezopolitiko okanye zibekho ngenjongo yokonwaba kuphela, njengakumsitho woloyiso weqela lezemidlalo. Kuxhomekeka kubunzulu besihlwele esibukele umngcelele, sinokuyigqala imingcelele njengezihlwele ezide.

Nokuba zeziphi iintlobo zezihlwele indawo yakho yelizwe lokhenketho enomtsalane, ukwazi ukulawula izihlwele kubalulekile. Ulawulo olululo lwesihlwele lunokubangela ukuba umsitho ube ngumtsalane ngokwawo. Ulawulo olungekho sikweni lwesihlwele lusenokujika lube sisidube-dube esikhokelela kungekuphela nje ekuphulukaneni nempahla kodwa nobomi. Olu lawulo lubi lwesihlwele lusenokubangela iingxaki ezongezelelekileyo kunye nokubhengezwa kakubi.

Ukukunceda ukuba uqwalasele uhlobo olululo lolawulo lwabantu abaninzi kwiziko lakho lezokhenketho, iTourism Tidbits inika ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo.

- Uhlalutyo lolawulo lomngcipheko luyimfuneko. Ungaze ucwangcise isiganeko apho kuya kubakho isihlwele esenzayo (nokuba ngaphakathi okanye ngaphandle) ngaphandle kovavanyo olupheleleyo lwemeko. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ukwazi ukuba utywala buya kubakho, amanani kunye neentlobo zabantu olindele ukuba babe khona, kunye nohlalutyo olunzulu lolawulo lomngcipheko. Ngaba isihlwele siyakha emini okanye ebusuku? Ukuba isiganeko sisiganeko sasebusuku, ngaba kuya kubakho ukukhanya okufanelekileyo?

- Khumbula ukuba awukwazi ukulawula isihlwele, kufuneka uwurhoxise umcimbi. Bonke ubomi bunomngcipheko, kodwa ezinye iziganeko azinakukhuseleka. Ukuba awukwazi ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwabathathi-nxaxheba ngoko kungcono uwurhoxise umsitho.

- Zilungiselele ngokwezonyango. Okukhona kukho utywala kakhulu kokukhona emaninzi amathuba okusela. Isihlwele esixineneyo kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba kubekho imeko kaxakeka yonyango. Ngaba amaqela akho onyango angatyhala phakathi kwesihlwele ukusindisa ubomi? Ingaba iqela lezonyango likhuseleke kangakanani? Ingaba unazo ii-ambulensi ezaneleyo kunye noogqirha (kunye nabongikazi) xa ufowunela? Ngaba sikhona isicwangciso sokuphuma kwezonyango kwaye ngaba esi sicwangciso siza kusebenza phantsi kwazo zonke iimeko?

- Qonda ukuba yintoni "ukutyumza isihlwele". Okukhona kuphezulu ukuxinana kwesihlwele kokukhona kumandla okuba nokwenzeka kweengxaki. Xa abantu bepakishwe kunye baye bathande ukuziva ngathi imigaqo ifuna ukusetyenziswa kwaye ingxaki inokuqalisa. Xa inani labantu lihamba ngaphaya kwe-7 yabantu ngemitha yesikwere, amathuba okuba neengxaki akhula ngokukhawuleza.

- Kukho amandla amakhulu okuba iingxaki ziya kuvela xa abantu besiya kwinto abayifunayo. Lo mbutho ubizwa ngokuba “ngamageza”. Ebudeni bokuphamba umntu usenokufa ezinyaweni zakhe kunokunyathelwa afe. Ngexesha lokutyumza kwesihlwele iindlela eziqhelekileyo zokuziphatha ziyanyamalala. Enye indlela yokunciphisa le ngxaki kukuba “neepeni zokubalekela” apho ingxinano yabantu ingaphantsi.

- Ukuba isiganeko siya kuba semthethweni okanye sitsale izinto ezingekho mthethweni ngaba kukho isicwangciso solawulo lweziyobisi?

Cinga oku kulandelayo:

• Qiniseka ukuba uchonga yonke imingcipheko ebangelwa zezi zinto ezinokuthi zisetyenziswe kumsitho

• Dwelisa amacebo akho kunye neentshukumo zokunciphisa kunye/okanye nokuphelisa ezo ngozi

• Ngaba ucacile ukuba ngubani onoxanduva lokusebenzisa ezi zicwangciso kwaye ngoobani abancedisi bakho? Ngaba unokhuseleko lwabucala olusebenza kunye nomthetho? Ngaba banokunxibelelana nomyalelo omnye ongundoqo? Emva koko zibuze: Ngaba uyayiqonda yonke imingcipheko (kubandakanywa nezikhongozeli ezivuliweyo) ezivezwa butywala kwesi siganeko?

- Yazi ukuba yintoni imingcipheko yeziyobisi kwaye wahlule le mingcipheko ngokweeseti. Ngokufuthi umsebenzi ubonakala unzima. Kule meko yahlulahlule umsebenzi ube ziiyunithi ezincinci Umzekelo ingaba ingxaki yokusela utywala ngokugqithisileyo okanye abantu abatsha bathubelezisa izinto ezingekho mthethweni kwisihlwele? Zeziphi iindlela onokuthi uzisebenzise ukunciphisa umngcipheko? Ngaba ukukhangela iibhegi kudala isihlwele sesibini okanye kukho indlela yokuphelisa abo bantu banokuthi babe nobundlobongela?

- Funda kwimpazamo yangaphambili kwaye uzame ukunqanda ukuphinda ezi mpazamo. Umzekelo, kungcono ukuba namagosa amaninzi kunamagosa ambalwa kumsitho. Kucace gca ukuba iindawo zokungena kunye neziphumayo ziphawulwe ngokucacileyo, ungasileli ukubhengeza into engayi kunyanyezelwa. Khumbula ukuba izihlwele zinika ukungaziwa okuvumela abantu ukuba benze into abanokoyika ukuyenza xa bengekho phakathi kwesihlwele.