Ukuthengisa uthando kunye nomtshato kukhenketho

UJuni waziwa njengenyanga yothando. Kwi-hemisphere esemantla, ikwayinyanga eyaziwayo ukutshata. Ngapha koko, abantu abaninzi baphupha ngomtshato kaJuni. Nangona kukho iindawo ezithile ezaziwayo ngemitshato kunye nongenelelo lothando, enyanisweni ngenani elincinci lokuyila, phantse nayiphi na indawo inokuzijika ibe ngumtshato okanye indawo yothando. Isixhobo esikhulu sokuthengisa esinokusebenza kwiindawo phantse naphi na apho kuthengiswa khona uthando kunye nemitshato.

Ngapha koko, le ntengiso inkulu kangangokuba kuqikelelwa ukuba ukhenketho lwezothando, kubandakanya imitshato yokufika kunye nokubaleka kwezothando, lushishino lwe-US $ 28 yezigidigidi. Nangona, icandelo lezorhwebo elinengeniso kakhulu yimakethi yomtshato, zininzi ezinye izinto ezikwishishini lezokhenketho kwezothando ezinje ngeempelaveki ezikhethekileyo, amava omtshato okanye umbhiyozo wesikhumbuzo.

Njengoko sele kuphawuliwe le yinxalenye enkulu nenengeniso kushishino lokhenketho. Umzekelo, e-United States kuqikelelwa ukuba abantu abasandul 'ukutshata bachitha imali ephantse ibe ngama- $ 5,000 kwisibini ngasinye. Xa kuziwa emitshatweni kufuneka siqwalasele kungekuphela iindleko zomtshato kunye nezinye izinto ezithengiweyo ngabantu abatshatileyo, kodwa nemali esetyenziswe ziindwendwe zomtshato. Abanye baba bantu abazukuya emtshatweni kuphela kodwa banikwe inkuthazo elungileyo abanokujika ixesha labo emtshatweni babe ngamava abo eeholide.

Imitshato ayifuni, nangona kunjalo, kwiindawo ezinkulu ezinamagama. Ngapha koko, iidolophu ezincinci, okanye iindawo ezingaphandle kwendlela, zihlala zivuna inzuzo enkulu kweli candelo lentengiso. Olunye uncedo olukhulu lomtshato kunye nokhenketho kwezothando kukuba uluntu akufuneki lube nezinto ezininzi ezinomtsalane. Ngapha koko, kwezinye iimeko, ngakumbi kwiindawo ezisemaphandleni, sinokuphikisa ngelithi okumbalwa okutsala ngumtsalane kwezothando.

Apha ngezantsi kukho iingcinga ezininzi zoluntu lwakho lokuthatha ithuba kule marike inkulu kwaye isoloko ikhula.

-Yazi into onayo nento ongenayo. Ngaba unayo indawo yokuhlala enokuhlala abantu abatshatileyo okanye enikezela iipakeji eziphuculweyo zabantu abasandul 'ukutshata? Ngaba kukho useto oluneefotogenic? Eyona ndawo ifotelweyo yindawo yokuthandana iya kuqwalaselwa? Ngemvume yesi sibini jonga ukuba ungazisebenzisa iifoto zomtshato ezidlulileyo kwindawo yakho njengenxalenye yokunyusa. Ezi foto zenza ingqiqo yenyani yomlingo kwaye zibeke indawo ohlala kuyo ekukhanyeni kwayo.

-Ingaba uluntu lwakho lunesicwangciso sentengiso esinxibelelana nabanokuba ngabanikezeli bomtshato okanye abasebusuku? Umzekelo, baleka uhambo lweentsapho-lokucwangciswa komtshato okanye ukuphuhlisa icandelo elikhethekileyo kwiwebhusayithi yakho elikhuthaza imitshato, iindlela zokubaleka zothando okanye ukutshata. Qiniseka ukuba ulwazi olunikiweyo luluhlu njengamagama aphambili ukuze xa abantu abafuna ezi ntlobo zeehambo bakhuphe iphepha lakho.

Yenza umtshato okanye iRomania yokubaleka. Olu setyenziso lunokuhambisa amava onke kwilizwe elinamanani, ukuququzelela amatyala ahlawulwayo, vumela izibini zigcine iirekhodi zayo yonke into ukusuka kwabo bebeye kumagumbi avaliweyo ngabantu. Inkqubo iyakuba lula kokukhona indawo yakho iya kuba nomtsalane.

-Cinga njengezibini ezinokubakho. Zibeke ezihlangwini zabo. Yeyiphi imibuzo onayo? Iya kuba yintoni inkxalabo yakho? Bawuchaza njani umtshato ophumelelayo? Unokudibana njani nabo ngokwengqondo ngokwemigaqo yabo?

-Nika ithuba lokudibana nesibini esitshatileyo kwi-intanethi nangaphambi kokuba bahlale kwisigqibo sabo sokugqibela. Imitshato imalunga nobudlelwane kunye nentlanganiso eku-intanethi ibeka ithoni ngaphambi kokundwendwela uluntu lwakho. Sebenzisa izixhobo zosasazo zasekuhlaleni ezinje nge-Facebook, i-Skype okanye i-WhatsApp ukukhulisa ubudlelwane. Sukuzisebenzisa ezi zixhobo ukwenza isibini esitshatileyo okanye ukubonisa ukuthengisa okunzima. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, cela ukuba abo babini batyelele umtshato wokwenyani kwindawo ohlala kuyo okanye uthethe nesibini esisandul 'ukutshata kwindawo yakho.

-Beka olona nyawo lwakho lubalaseleyo phambili. Ungaze unyuse into ongenayo kodwa uxelele onayo ngendlela ebalaseleyo. Sebenzisa ukufota ukubonisa useto lweefoto kunye nokuphuhlisa iiphakheji zothando okanye zekhefu ezilingana nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali.

-Thengisa uluntu lwakho njengeziko lokuzibandakanya. Nangona ayinguye wonke umntu oya kufuna ukutshata apho baqala khona ukutshata, uthethathethwano olunempumelelo lukhuthaza abantu ukuba bafune ukubuyela. Khuthaza yonke into ukusuka kwiintyatyambo ukuya kumakhonkco, ukusuka kwizaphulelo kwiindawo zokutyela ukuya ngorhatya olukhethekileyo kwindawo yokutyela yendawo okanye kwezinye izinto ezinomtsalane.

-Yila ubuhlakani bokuyila. Umzekelo, sebenza kunye neentyatyambo zeentyatyambo, iivenkile zokuhombisa ubucwebe kwaye ukuba zikhona kwindawo okuyo, iivenkile zewayini. Nika iivawutsha ezinokusetyenziswa kanye phambi okanye emva komsitho. Yiba noluhlu lwabantu abanokuqhuba emtshatweni ukuze izibini zizive zikhululekile kunye nomntu ophethe umtshato kunye nomntu oceba ukwamkela umtshato. Yenza i-brunch emva komtshato okanye okhethekileyo; ukungcamla iwayini. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba izibini ezitshatayo zifuna ukuziva zikhethekileyo kwaye okubaluleke ngakumbi kunye noluntu lwakho olwenza ukuba abantu abatshatileyo bazive bonelisekile ngakumbi.

-Zilungiselele izibini ezitshatileyo okanye iindwendwe. Nangona iindawo ezahlukeneyo kunye neentlanga zinokuba nemithetho eyahlukileyo, inyani kukuba le yimarike ekhulayo kwaye ewazi ngamandla amalungelo ayo kwaye ikulungele ukuyilwela. Ayingomsebenzi wakho ukugweba umntu. Endaweni yokuphatha umntu ngamnye ngesidima kwaye uhloniphe ubuntu bomntu ngamnye.