Amasiko ama-5 Uya kubona kuphela kumtshato waseUkraine

Amasiko ama-5 Uya kubona kuphela kumtshato waseUkraine
Umtshato waseUkraine
Ibhalwe ngu Linda Hohnholz

Imitshato yaseUkraine inamasiko awodwa kwaye ihlala ikhunjulwa ixesha elide. Asingabo bonke abantu abasandul 'ukutshata ababambelela kumasiko emveli omtshato. Kodwa Umtshato waseUkraine izithethe zixhaphake kakhulu kwimitshato. Ezinye zazo zahlukile. Wakhe waya kumbhiyozo onje? Ukuba akunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyibona ngamehlo akho.

Intlanganiso yabaselula

Abazali babantu abatsha badibana nabasandul 'ukutshata ekhaya kunye nesonka netyuwa. Sisiko lentsikelelo kubomi bentsapho obude. Kukho isonka somtshato esikhethekileyo - ikorowai sisonka esibhakwe ngokukodwa, embindini wayo ugalela ityuwa. Kwakhona ihonjiswe ngeepateni ezahlukeneyo kunye nezinto zokuhombisa. IKorowai kufuneka ibe kwilaphu elikhethekileyo-i-rushnyk. Ihlala imhlophe kwaye ihonjiswe ngemihombiso. Abasandul 'ukutshata banikwa i-korowai kwaye ulutsha kufuneka luphule iqhekeza lalo. Kukho uphawu oluneqhekeza elikhulu le-korowai, loo mntu uya kuba yintloko yosapho. Emva koko, abo batshatayo kufuneka bangcamle ityuwa, ebonisa ukuba bakulungele ukuba kunye nokuba sentlungwini.

Ukugquma intloko

Lo ngumsitho ochukumisayo. Kwangelo xesha, umyeni osandula ukwenziwa ususa isigqubuthelo entlokweni yentombazana kwaye umama wakhe ubopha isikhafu endaweni yesigqubuthelo. Oku kubonisa ukuba sele engumfazi otshatileyo. Emva koko umtshakazi umema omnye wabahlobo bakhe angatshatanga kuye kwaye azame isigqubuthelo kuye. Ngeli xesha, amantombazana aseleyo aqhuba ajikeleze umdaniso ojikelezayo.

Ngokukhawuleza xa isigqubuthelo sisuswe entlokweni yomtshakazi, lixesha lokuphosa isipha somtshakazi. Ngokwentsomi, nabani na obamba iintyatyambo uyakutshata kunyaka olandelayo.

Dlulisa umlilo wosapho

Abazali bomyeni nomyeni bakhanyisa amakhandlela kwaye badlulisa umlilo kubantu abasandul 'ukutshata. Amaninzi, iindwendwe kunye nezalamane baba kufutshane nabo. Konke oku kuhamba neengoma, amazwi okwahlula abazali, ngamanye amaxesha imithandazo. Xa kukhanyiswa amakhandlela abo batshatayo, intetho yabazali kuyathethwa-bahlala etafileni yabo, kodwa amakhandlela ayatsha ubusuku bonke. Akukho mntu ucima amakhandlela.

Ukuthenga umtshakazi

Mhlawumbi yenye yeendlela zokuzonwabisa ezonwabisayo. Ukusukela Umyeni nomyeni kufuneka balale ezindlwini ezahlukeneyo phambi komtshato, amaxesha amaninzi umtshakazi uhlala endlwini yabazali. Kuza iindwendwe ezivela kumtshakazi, umkhwenyana. Ngokunjalo, iindwendwe ezivela kumyeni ziza endlwini yakhe. Phambi kokuba umyeni abone umtshakazi, kwaye baya kuya kubhaliso lomtshato-unokumhlangula umtshakazi. Ngenxa yoku, abatshakazi abamvumeli okanye umyeni oza kumyeni. Bacwangcisa iimvavanyo ezahlukeneyo kwaye beza nemisebenzi ekufuneka igqityiwe. ukuba umyeni akawenzi umsebenzi - kuya kufuneka ahlawule. Ingaba yimali, izipho, njl.

Ngokusisiseko, eli ngamava amnandi kwaye ahlekisayo.

Rushnyk

Olu lolunye lweempawu eziphambili. Wenza umsebenzi khubalo. Uninzi lwamaxesha amaninzi lwenziwe ngelaphu lendalo kwaye lihlotshiswe ngemihombiso yesintu. Kangangexesha elide intombazana kwafuneka ukuba uyiluke. Lo ngumsebenzi omde kwaye onzima. Ubuye waqokelela ikhazi, eliza kuthi emva koko litshathelwe kuye okanye umyeni wakhe emva komtshato.

I-korowai kufuneka ilale phantsi kwi-rushnyk, kufuneka ibekho kumsitho womtshato. Abazali baba bantu batshatayo babeka i-rushnyk phambi kwabo ukukhusela umtshato. Kukho umqondiso wokuba nabani na oqala ukunyathela kuyo-uya kuba ngoyena uphambili kusapho.

umtshato

Umtshato waseUkraine uhlala ucula iingoma, ukungqungqa, umculo. Ijongeka inombala. Rhoqo, umtshato uhlala iintsuku ezininzi. Ngokwesiqhelo, ngosuku lwesibini, iindwendwe ziyahlangana, zibhiyozele kwaye ziqhube umsitho.

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  • At the same time, the newly-made husband removes the veil from the girl's head and his mother ties a scarf instead of a veil.
  • The newlyweds are served a korowai and the youngsters have to break off a piece of it.
  • The parents of the newlyweds lay a rushnyk in front of them to protect the marriage.

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