Uninzi lwabantu lunenkumbulo enye ebomini babo, ixesha elihlala lihleli kwinkumbulo yabo. Uninzi lwazo luhlobene nekhefu lentsapho elibuyisela iingcinga ezifudumeleyo zokuba kunye nabo ubathandayo. Iinkumbulo ezifana nezi zinqabile, kwaye ufuna ukuzigcina. Kwakhona uziva wonwabile xa ucinga ngabo. Ngenxa yeemvakalelo ezizivuselelayo, kungokwemvelo ukufuna abantwana bakho bakhe iinkumbulo ezintle.
Iholide yenye yeendlela ezonwabileyo zokuzimanya nosapho lwakho kwaye uchithe ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye, kude neziphazamiso eziqhelekileyo zobomi bemihla ngemihla ekhaya. Wena kunye nosapho lwakho nifanele ikhefu kwindlela yenu yemihla ngemihla, kwaye nibe namava ento entsha. Ngaphandle kokudala iinkumbulo ezihlala ubomi bonke, uyalomeleza ulwalamano lwenu njengosapho. Ukuba kunye kukuvumela ukuba ugxile omnye komnye kwaye uxabise abo ubathandayo ngakumbi. Ungakhetha ukusuka izindlu ezinkulu zokurenta kwaye ufumane enye yokuhlalisa usapho lwakho kwaye ujabulele ixesha lakho elixabisekileyo kunye.
Nanga amanye amacebiso aluncedo ukukunceda ucwangcise iholide yosapho eyonwabisayo.
1. Ukupakisha
Enye yezinto ezinokuba lucelomngeni ngakumbi kunamanye amalungiselelo kukupakisha, ngokukodwa intsapho. Qala ukulungiselela kwangethuba ngokwenza uluhlu lwezinto ozidingayo ukuze wenze lula inkqubo. Xa uqala ukulayisha ezi zinto kwiisutikheyisi, ungaziphawula kuluhlu lwakho. Fumana ngemozulu kwindawo oya kuyo kwaye upakishe ngokufanelekileyo. Zama ukungawulayishi kakhulu umthwalo wakho, ushiye indawo yezinto onokufuna ukugoduka nazo. Pakisha kuphela izinto eziyimfuneko njengoko abantwana bakho abancinci banokufuna izinto ezininzi zokuhamba.
2. Cwangcisa izinto eniza kuzenza nentsapho yenu
Ngenxa yokuba le yiholide yentsapho, kuya kuba kuhle ukucwangcisa imisebenzi ethandwa ngumntu wonke. Usenokufuna ukubandakanya intsapho njengoko usenza imephu yohambo lwakho, ufumanisa into engathanda ukuyenza okanye ukuyibona. Unokujonga kwakhona iindawo zokutyela ezibonelela ngokutya okukonwabelayo abantwana bakho. Cwangcisa ixesha kunye neqabane lakho nize nicwangcise izinto eninomdla kuzo nobabini. Ngapha koko, ngumcimbi wentsapho, ngoko wonke umntu kufuneka athathe inkumbulo yakhe ekhethekileyo.
3. Yenza amalungiselelo ngezityalo zakho kunye nezilwanyana zasekhaya
Ngoxa usenza izicwangciso zeholide yentsapho yakho, usenokuqalisa ukwenza amalungiselelo oko ukushiya ngasemva kangangeentsuku ezimbalwa. Umzekelo, ukuba unezilwanyana zasekhaya, ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba zikhuselekile kwaye zondliwa kakuhle ngelixa ukude. Unokufuna ukubhukisha isilwanyana sakho kwihotele yesilwanyana sasekhaya okanye ube namanye amalungu osapho awakhathalele. Ngokufanayo, izityalo zakho zifuna ukunkcenkceshela rhoqo, ngoko khumbula ukuzinikezela kumntu onokunyamekela iimfuno zabo.
Iholide yosapho yi-adventure nonke eninokuthi nijonge phambili kuyo. Lithuba lokuhamba uye kude nekhaya kwaye uchithe elona xesha lilungileyo lobomi bakho nosapho lwakho. Kuya kufuneka wenze inqaku lokuphuma kucwangciso lwakho oluxakekileyo ukuze ube kunye nabantu obathandayo.
