Yeyiphi inxenye yokungayiqondi? Lo ibingomnye wemibuzo kumakhulu ama-ultra-Orthodox kunye nama-Orthodox amaJuda axoxwe kwinkomfa eyayiseJerusalem kwiveki ephelileyo ukuba bafunde ngesihloko esingavunyelwayo - ubundlobongela basekhaya kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwiindawo abahlala kuzo.
Le ndibano ibiququzelelwe liZiko leNtlekele laMaTyhini naBantwana bezeNkolo, iTahel Crisis Centre yabasetyhini, enesihloko esithi “Ukudala iiNdawo eziKhuselekileyo, ukudala ithemba,” yajongana nemiba uninzi lwamaJuda obuOthodoki ebaphephayo ukujongana nayo. Zimalunga ne-120 izithethi ezivela kwa-Israyeli nakwamanye amazwe ali-15, awayehlanganisene eJerusalem eCrown Plaza Hotel ukusasaza ngaphezulu kwama-500 abathathi-nxaxheba, ikakhulu ama-Orthodox amaJuda, indlela yokwakha iindawo ezikhuselekileyo kunye noluntu lwabantwana babo; nendlela yokujongana namatyala akwizinga eliphezulu aquka iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuxhatshazwa.
Ethetha neMedia Line, uDebbie Gross, umlawuli weTahel, ucacisile ukuba ukuqala kwalo mbutho ukufundisa abantu benkolo malunga nokuphathwa gadalala ngokwesondo, “abantu bebengalazi igama, ngoku imeko itshintshile kwaye abantu abakholwayo, kubandakanya noorabhi , bafuna ukwazi konke malunga nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwaye bafundise abantwana babo ukuze bakuthintele. ”
Gross uxele ukuba ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwabantwana kwa-Israyeli kuyanda. "Uninzi lwezikhalazo eziza eTahel zichaphazela abantwana, bobabini isini." Nangona kunjalo, uGross ubonakalise ukuba kwiindawo zonqulo, kulula kakhulu kubaphuli-mthetho abangamadoda ukuba bahlukumeze amakhwenkwe kuba, kwiindawo ezininzi, amadoda nabafazi bohlukene. "Bahlula amadoda nabasetyhini ezikolweni kwaye, ke ngoko, kunokwenzeka ukuba utitshala oyindoda axhaphaze umfundi oyindoda."
Eyasungulwa kwi-1993, isikhungo saseTahel siququzelele iinkqubo zokunceda amaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala ngokusebenzisa iikhosi zentlalo kunye nokuxhaswa kweemvakalelo kwi-ultra-Orthodox nakwamanye amaziko akwa-Israyeli, eRhawutini, eSydney, eMelbourne naseLondon. Iziko lisungule umnxeba woncedo lwamaJuda enkolo apho amaxhoba okanye iintsapho zabo banokwabelana ngamava abo kwaye bacele uncedo.
Ngexesha lonyaka, uTahel wafumana ngaphezulu kweefowuni ezingama-2,300 XNUMX ezivela kubantu benkolo abafuna uncedo. "Iifowuni ziyanda," utshilo uGross. Uqwalasele ukuba umatshini weendaba udlale indima enkulu ekwaziseni nasekuxhaseni injongo yabo.
UHelise Pollack, owayesakuba ligosa lentlalontle eRamat Beit Shemesh, uluntu lwamaOthodoki kwintshona yeJerusalem, owayesebenzisana nabantwana abaxhatshazwe ngokwesondo, wakhomba kwiMedia Line ukuba ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana sisiqalekiso kwihlabathi liphela, esithi Nokuba usisityebi kangakanani okanye ulihlwempu, unqulo okanye awukhonzi kwinkolo, yenzeka kuyo yonke indawo. ” Nangona kunjalo, "kukho iindawo ezithile ezivaliweyo apho kubonakala ngathi kwenzeka ngakumbi kwaye kwenzeka ngandlela ithile yokusabela kwikhonkco ngokulandelelana."
U-Pollack ugxininise isidingo sokwazisa aba bantu, echaza ukuba, "kwakudala, ama-Orthodox amaJuda ayecinga ukuba akukho mntu uzokuhlukumeza abantwana babo ngokwesondo, ke bayabakhupha abantwana babo ngaphandle kweliso lokuba badlale-ngoku abantu bayazi ngakumbi ukuba ingenzeka. ”
Ngaphandle kolwazi olwandisiweyo kunye nokuzimisela ngakumbi ukufuna uncedo olufanelekileyo kumaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala, uluntu lwe-Ultra-Orthodox lusenokuphepha ukuxela ukuxhatshazwa kwabasemagunyeni. Ngo-2013, amaziko oncedo kumaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala ngokwesondo kwa-Israyeli afumana iminxeba engama-40,000, uninzi (87%) lwamaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala yayingamabhinqa. Phakathi kwale minxeba, i-8,637, i-12 yayingabafowunelwa abatsha, ebonisa ukunyuka kwe-XNUMX% xa kuthelekiswa neminyaka edlulileyo.
"Kwa-Israyeli, ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo phakathi kwezenkolo kuyimeko ethandwayo kunayo nayiphi na enye indawo, kuba abantu benkolo abavumelekanga ukuba batshintshe," uqinisekisile uGross.
SOURCE: TheMediaLine.org
INTO ONOKUYITHATHA KWELI NQAKU:
- Speaking to The Media Line, Debbie Gross, the director of Tahel, explained that when the organization first began to educate religious people about sexual abuse, “people didn't know the term, now the situation has really changed and religious people, including rabbis, want to know all about sexual abuse and educate their children in order to prevent it.
- Helise Pollack, a former welfare officer from Ramat Beit Shemesh, an Orthodox community west of Jerusalem, who dealt with children who had experienced sexual abuse, pointed out to The Media Line that abuse against children is a worldwide curse, that “it doesn't matter how rich or poor, religious or not religious, it happens everywhere.
- This was one of the questions hundreds of ultra-Orthodox and Orthodox Jews discussed in a conference in Jerusalem last week to learn about a taboo subject – domestic violence and sexual abuse in their closed communities.
